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Are you still waiting for that elusive perfect partner? Well, I have news for you. He or she may never come. It is pretentious to believe that somewhere and somehow somebody out there was made just for you and all your whims and desires. And if there is somebody like that, the chances of the two of you meeting, are negligibly small.

By placing yourself on a pedestal, believing that you deserve only the best is folly and may leave you on your own forever plus another few days. Chances are that if you can locate that perfect partner, he or she may not see you as perfect at all.

Let’s face; it we are mass-produced; each one unique and yet all stereotyped. We are born the same. It is the events during our lives, and how we cope with it, that define us for what we are. The random factor is far too great to calculate the outcome. People change and adjust according to what life throws at them. What is perfect now may not be so in the future. The opposite is also true.

You have to make compromises. Compromising does not mean that you have to surrender. It merely entails a strategic reevaluation and restructuring of your goals. There is no need to lower your standards and there is nothing that a coat of paint cannot fix, providing that the superstructure is sound. And be prepared to receive a bit of painting as well. You’re not perfect either.

It is not all about finding the perfect partner; it is also about being the perfect partner. It takes two to tango and a chain is only as strong as the weakest link.


Have a marvelous weekend. It may just happen this weekend.

There is no reason For Anyone To Take a certain Someone serious with The blog That person Just had Up
By The way
It is now Gone
This certain person.. Ive noticed...Took A different path About 2 months Ago...She Was Quite The opposite of What she Was Then
I Did not get offended by What She Wrote
It was All designed To "Shake Things up"..As far As im concerned
And Everybody fell Into The trap This person had set(Well Not Everybody)
As far As I can see
It Was All designed To get The reactions..And reactions There Were
If i remember There Were Others Who Did The same thing To "Shake Things Up"
so..Its no big deal to me
We can Only be bothered by Things People say
If We Allow it
Ive seen And read Worst
Not taking this persons Side
Just explaining What I Think It Was All About
In A couple of days it Will All be forgotten until The next person does The exact same Thing
You Have to Admit
"She shook Things up"..............

PS..As I Was rudely Attacked After my last comment by Someone...I left the blog to The Wolves(Comment 66)(And never read Any more of it)
Thats Why I changed the title to "Its her blog now"

Being a man would you date a woman who is taller then you ? As a woman would you date a man who,is shorter then you ?

"When We Open Our Eyes After Sleeping...We Can See The Ceiling... And The Walls That Make Up The Room We Are In"
"We Can Lay Down On Our Backs And Stare At The Clouds Floating By... And Make Out All Kinds Of Faces Within Those Clouds"
"We Can See The Bare Trees From Winter... Slowly Sending Out Their Leaves... As They Announce To Us That A New Season Is About To Begin"
"We Can See The Children Playing...Doing The Things We Used To Do When We Were Their Age"
"We Can Watch Our favorite Programs On Our Televisions"
"We Can Stand On The Corner And See All Of Our Fellow Humans Hurrying Along.... As If They Were About To Miss A Deadline"
"We Can See The Wonder Of Those Majestic Mountains..As They Blend In And Become Valleys"
"We Can See The Smiles We Forced People To Give Back To Us As We Smiled At Them First"
There Is Just So Much To See That It All Cant Be Written Here
But
For All That There Is To See?

"Theres None So Blind"
"As Those Who Will Not See"
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After a few minutes if in depth research the origin of modern man is clear, we have been lied to by fake history since history was invented.

My hypothesis is that an alien race visited our planet during the Neolithic era, The aliens were supposed to observe our cave men (and women) but a few had got the horn after watching the pure animal lust taking place in the caves and took advantage by basically raping our ancestors.

This was not a bad thing as we began to evolve, walk upright and talk using proper words, most of our body hair fell off and we began capturing wild grass’s to make healthy cereals and rice to accompany our curries. Caves were decorated with Xmas trees and we became quite nice for a while until part of our DNA (The wild and arrogant bit) took over and we became utter twats and quite nasty to each other.

All signs indicate that these alien rapists are returning soon, some say it’s to say sorry, some say it’s because human women are probably much better than the alien women, regardless of why they are returning, they are and we should really be on our best behavior when they do.

Should our Neanderthal ancestors have been left alone, or did the aliens do us a massive favor?

Image from the Ugg family photo Album.

I Am The Bad Side Of Nam..........He Has Been Overwhelmed By My Powers....And Cannot Function At This Moment...As I Have Taken Over His Physical Being.......So...If you Dont Like What I Say...Or You Feel Insulted...Remember...Its Not Nam
Its "Bad Side Nam"

Just Look At All The Blogs
Merry Christmas!...Christmas This!..Christmas That!...Seasons Greetings!...I Hope This!......... I Hope That!

Kyacheo...Who... Obviously... Cant Spell!

What A Bunch Of Crap
Too Damned Much Christmas!!!
Bah!!!!....Humbug!!!!

Next On The List?
All That Phony Happy New Year Crap Will Be A Comin Our Way
And We Will Have To Cringe In Disgust ...At The First Sign Of Reading All That Crap

Ill Be Sure To Have Plenty Of Alka Seltzer At The Ready




(Being "Bad Side Nam")....(I Only Use 4 Blue Men)

That's fairly recent, the whole hugging thing, when I was younger (and mammoths roamed the earth, I know, I know) you offered your hand and the stranger or acquaintance shook it and jolly good show what what. Now I'm introduced to a stranger or meet an acquaintance and somewhat to my alarm they close in for kisses (praises be I am in Spain, 2 kisses, and not France, 3 or more) or a hug. What? I barely know you! Even men meeting men do the half-hug / backslap thing here, and it was becoming increasingly common in Scotland before I left. Is it international now? I need a teddybear to handle my social hugs for me.



Don't get me wrong, I love real hugging. I would change my profile to say 'I could hug you so hard all your broken bits will join up forever' except that I get enough odd mail as it is already. but here's the other odd thing - the hug, it seems, is only for acquaintances now. When you know each other better, see each other often - no more hugging. Now that's just wrong. Them's the people I WANT to hug and cuddle and pat and scrunch just because I am so very pleased to see them, or when we are parting to tide me over to the next time I see them.

yes yes no questions allowed but seriously, how confined are you in your area?

Tuesday I had to do an emergency trip as a passenger with my dog and it required applying for authorisation for 2 people in a car. The authorisation had to be printed off for presentation on request. I then sat in the back seat on the far side with the dog in gloves and mask. Me and driver, I mean. Not the dog.

Just wondered how that compared to what most people would have to go through to get a sick dog to a vet - if anything. The fine if we hadn't got the authorisation would have been around 1000 euros and potentially being turned back.

Would really help if any comments included country or even province / state. It could be interesting.

Seven years ago, I started working for a company that was 40 miles from my home. Nearly all highway miles, I've tolerated bad drivers and never ending road construction. With no traffic and obeying the speed limit, it's around 50 minutes one way, door to door. On a bad day it's more than 90 minutes to reach the office.

Except for the crazy drivers, I actually enjoy driving. Unless I were a professional driver getting paid to be on the road, it shouldn't be part of my career. I try to optimize my travels and visit projects before I get to the office, but that's not always possible. Sometimes, I have meetings at office first, then I travel out on appointments.

When I started this job, I owned an old Toyota Celica and after 220,000 miles I bought a new Hyundai Veloster in 2014 that's past 125,000 miles and the 4th set of tires.

My first choice was to purchase a house near the office, but that was totally out of my price range. Then I considered renting an apartment, but I didn't want to walk away with nothing to show for my efforts. That got me to condo shopping as that is the least expense to make things work. My wife had an apartment in China and was fine with that lifestyle. While there are lots of freedoms with a house (and no Homeowners Association) that would be traded for someone else maintaining the place but I would have to accept a list of 'cannot do' this or that, typical with condo living.

Shopping on and off for two years got accelerated in the last 6 months. Although house prices are rising, I found that the units I viewed usually were sold and quickly taken off the market. The last agent I dealt with has more sales than all the others combined and I decided to go with her. She was very helpful in making a purchase.

What I got was someone who already printed reports for the units we planned to visit and actually knew something about each one and not reading details from their cellphone like the other agents I met. Mentioned in previous blogs, the last one I saw was matched more of the conditions for a purchase. For example:
Price range, less work needed to be able to move in, no one had died in the unit, bedroom was on the east side and away from the heat of the afternoon sun, easy access from the entrance gate, laundry in the unit and not community coin laundry.

I made an offer, negotiated a bit, placed a deposit. Approved by the mortgage company and the homeowners association, I was cleared to move ahead. The home inspection showed no leaking roof and no trouble with the appliances. That said, I coughed up the money and met with a cashier's check for the closing.

The sellers had all their furniture and belongings removed the day before the closing. I arranged to have utilities turned on in my name. They left me a bar of soap in one bathroom and a bottle of water in the refrigerator!

The purpose of this blog is to track my progress with the renovation and document the pitfalls as well as the successful moments.

Out just the other night. A friend and I meet up at a local bar. We both have a few drinks....sitting around talking and such. Another person we both know, a friend starts talking with us. He pulls out his phone and starts sharing some sexually explicit videos of women.

I'm a straight guy, so I decide to watch a couple of his videos....of course while he is holding his phone right in front of my face. Okay, the first two made be just sit there in disbelief, but the third one still has me just....well...

There are two women laying down with their legs spread...naked. There is a third lady who is aligning them with each other. What happens is just outright disgusting in my opinion. I can just imagine that you are hoping I will share what I seen, but believe me, it is probably going to be disturbing for many here....and while for others...I don't know.

Anyway, the point of this whole blog is what my friend said to the the guy showing us the video...and the guy's answer.

My friend asks, how can you satisfy a woman like that?

The guys says, I don't know...but I stay away from women like that.

I know there was mention of sex toys destroying the sensation of female anatomy.....but with what I seen and from the responses that came from that....I am starting to think that a horse can't sexually satisfy some women.

Is this a new way in society for women...with the sex toy industry?

....and men are suppose to be the pigs?