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I had a friend a few years back that told me he was seeing this woman. This woman was a Christian and cheated on her husband countless times, eventually divorced, she lied, she stole, she dated men after men after men, cheating on countless boyfriends. My friend asked her, aren't you a Christian? What do you think God will think of this? Her reply was, the Bible says he will forgive me.






Happy Friday/Saturday all



Thanks Jim.

Seemingly, 06 January is the busiest day for online dating.

Whether being sick of yet another Christmas alone, made a New Year's resolution to find love or not looking forward to another Valentine's Day alone, people have chosen to make today, 06 January, the date to find that new person in their lives.

11.30pm is the ultimate time to be online That is when most of the exchanges take place.
So if you are an early to bed, early to rise type, maybe have a short siesta in the evening so you will be wide awake to catch that late worm.


Happy hunting

There was a joke suggestion on FB re the perfect Christmas gift for writers so naturally I re-posted it on the spot but it got me thinking. Perfect gifts cost the giver nothing but time and a bit of thought, and delight the receiver.

What else qualifies as a perfect gift? A bunch of wild flowers is the only other one I can think of. Nice but a bit – boring. There have to be other things in this crass commercial world which have no cash price yet are priceless. When we were kids, hell, easy – parents finding time to play a game of our choosing with us was the best gift of all.

Tough to work out what someone else would like. Perhaps there’s something real and achievable you’d really prefer to a pair of socks or another woolly or silky scarf for your collection. If you could share, that’ll give us all ideas

And yeah the grownup version of ‘finding time to play with us’ would go down well but not all of us have someone to oblige



Off to school, where a good rating from a student means a bonus for me, so I’m sorted with my wish for today . . .

and would you let me watch you making it?

My office closed the other day and amongst the 'goodies' we shared out I got a large supply of office-type teabags. I decided to try making a cup of tea this morning.

It tasted fairly horrible. Is there a knack to making tea? Can anyone talk me through it? Yes yes add boiling water but - for how long? When does that soggy sad little lump get removed? Is a teapot better?

Its One Thing To Be An Understanding Man...Having Some People Feeling As If What They Have Told You Is Being Understood
But Unfortunately..It Is Not To Be Understood
Why?
Because You Dont Make Sense...Thats Why

Nope...Its Alright To Be An "Understanding Man" Sometimes
But Ill tick To What I Feel Is Best For Me
Ill Stick To Being A "Ramblin Man"
(After All...That Is What I Am)





..............("Every Ten Minutes")...........................

I´ve been on the blogs for around a year, found them thanks to a person who told me to take a look and must say I do enjoy it.
There are all kinds of topics but my question is.. what makes you want to comment and what do you expect from the actual blogger when you comment?

What makes a successful blog?
As a blogger do you get upset if people don't comment on your blog?
I would love a tutorial on how to do interesting blogs, how do you find your ideas. There are a few bloggers I do admire and a few that I really enjoy how they comment.
So my questions are

For bloggers

a) How do you choose your topics?
b) Do you get upset if you don't get comments or views?

For comment posters

c) What motivates you to comment on a blog?
d) What do you expect from the blogger when you comment?

For everyone

e)Do you recomend the blogs to others CS users and why?

when someone acts badly we assume instantly that's how they really are, and yet when someone acts in a nice way we assume it won't last?

Went out for drinks the other night with a woman I've been getting friendly with at the office - NICE woman. A friendly guy offered to buy us a drink and she changed completely - ow, go on then and hissed to me, when he went obediently to buy said drinks 'make an excuse and leave, okay?'

Okayyy. See ya, wouldnae wanta be ya. Never realized what a tart she was. Huh. Back to her bright funny interesting self the next day, but now I know. Right?

Another colleague, another drinks night, suddenly laughing too loudly at stupid jokes, crude and boorish, what a moron. Now we know what he really is, right?

Then take a guy with a lifelong passion for practical jokes, suddenly being romantic. Oh well, THAT can't be real, am I right?

See, we instantly believe the first two are showing their true colours. Third one, we wait for it to pass, or for the joke to be revealed.

Was that your reaction to the examples as well? Why?

Well the sun is in hiding, I sip my coffee and the endless ocean
of grey cloud accompanied by the sound of wood pigeons and bird
songs breaking the summer breeze bring me to another time.
A time of youthful adventure and the uncaring anticipation for future events. A time when I sat in the company of friends at the canteen table joking about the events of the night before,
Sharing bashful smiles with the most beautiful girl in the world.

I had that year deemed myself to old for pulling pig tails, and I presume she had come to the conclusion that playing hard to get was not always a good thing. It seems we both replaced these typical School yard behaviors with a constant volley of witty retorts. Bouncing harmless Insult after harmless Insult at each
other, We entered a strange relationship And being a dumb Guy I did not and still to this day don’t understand fully what we had. I do remember however that this was without doubt the happiest time of my life and looking back now I understand that she made it so.
In fact such was our un-acted upon Passion for each other that in the parting of ways we were in the end more Like Heathcliff and Cathy than Romeo and Juliet. I suppose Sometimes love is simply doomed by the complication of the Human condition.
On leaving that love behind I was lucky enough to to be the proud owner of a 2nd generation mobile Phone. More compact than its bigger brother but still a brick none the less. I remember She was the first person to make a call on it and the look of amazement on her face when her mother answered was priceless and will always stay with me. Her smile made me very happy. The Internet was in its infancy and The real world was all I had. Why I walked away I will never Know.

I often think how would things have been If I asked her out, I’m sure our kiss would have been ranked with Mark Anthony and Cleopatra’s. Could We have made it till today. I guess I will never know. What I do know is that my life has taken many twists and turns since we departed. Some of these meandering roads have left me with the harsh lessons of life’s folly’s, others have given me the gift of companions for my Travels. Friends and Family of all shapes and sizes. But none strangely so Intriguing as the formless entanglement’s from all walks of life we meet here in the void of Virtual space.

Strange that life should send me Here to a blank page, and give me a keyboard. Is this Destiny that I am typing and you are reading. Is this the reason we are here. Am I some how to Inspire you to avoid my faith. Or are you supposed to rescue me from mine.

a song for that never forgotten Someone from not so long ago.



Do you have one that got away, Do you remember them fondly. ?

There was a man who was walking down a dirt road. And found something sticking out of the ground. He stopped to look at it and then he dug it up, it was dirty. So! He rubbed it with a cloth and then.. POOF! Out came a genie and it said, "Three wishes hmmm... Sorry! I only have one wish left choose wisely!"

So! The man began to think of a wish and he said, "Can you give me a hour to think?" "Of course!", said the genie. And then SWIRL! He went into the lamp and got carried to the man's home.

When the man got home he first asked his mother, blind mother said, "I wish I could see my grandson!" Then his father who said, "I want to be rich!" and then ask his wife! And she said "I wish our first child could have swingset! So he got all of the wishes in one. What did he wish for???_______________

THEN AFTER THAT!.....TELL ME ONE WISH, THAT YOU WISH FOR, TODAY ONLY!!!!!

And I will, see what I can do for you today!

The road to a healthy relationship sometimes depends on our willingness to accept our faults and work towards establishing an effort to correct our mistakes.

How long would it take, after a misunderstanding has occurred, for you to acknowledge such an effort? How critical is it if any, is the implication on the timing?

Are there moments, when afterwards, realize our errors, have made us say: "Why did I do that?" then what would you do to fix it?
Or do we let it fly in time and forget it happened?

Thanks for all your contributions and participation.

Note: Realizing the sensibility this topic calls on our characters, that doesn't mean we don't make a mistake, and I hope there is a way to make us learn if only to make our life easier in terms of a harmonious relationship?

Thanks again..

SR