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Maybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one".

Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are called, what truly is our chances of finding him/her on this site? Or anywhere for that matter.

I have met and found whom I thought was the one 9 years ago here. Although our distance was more than 7,000 miles apart we didn't get discouraged because what we felt from the first skype was so strong and wonderful that we didn't think of any hurdles we had to face.
Anyways I went to his place about three times and he came to my place about two times. To cut the story short, for me, it was the most interesting, adventurous and wonderful part of my life.

I read somewhere that the difficulty of meeting a real partner here isn't as easy as meeting them in family gatherings, church or the conventional and normal introduction before the web. What's with all of those mentally crazy, drug addicts, or simply players that are not who they claim they are. Married pretending to be single, and more discouraging characters which by the time you find out, has already caused you a lot of emotional roller coaster.

Well for me, I am no longer looking. I'm way past that. But meeting good friends both male or female, to me is a plus.

What about you? Please feel free to share your stories if you want. Maybe we can all learn from it.

Note: I know about six couples who have met here, still married and happy. A couple from NZ and India, From Northern Thailand and England (my best friends, he passed away , blessed his soul). From Philippines and NZ, From NY and England, From France and CH, and also our very own Mimi from Malaysia now happily living in Nebraska. The first three couples I met them 8 years ago still very happily married.

Like food, all relationships have a sell-by date.

Relationships started way back when the average life-expectancy would have been only 25-40 years of age.
So a lifetime commitment to a relationship wasn't quite so long, 10-15 years if you were very lucky.

Fast forward to the 21st century where people are living happily into their 90s, is it really reasonable to expect a lifetime commitment of 60+ years?

As with all things, there are exceptions in food too. Honey will last indefinitely but even that can crystallise and look a bit shabby. It takes a bit of hot stuff to bring it back again.
Some relationships also stand the test of time, but when they crystallise, somebody needs to be there,and willing, to apply that fix to make it gleam again.

Other foods you do keep forever, much past their sell-by date. But they grow dusty in the back of the cupboard as you don't want to get rid of them, but are not actively using them either. It is better to just clear out the cupboard and start afresh.

With all foods, it is better to enjoy them when they are fresh, and not try to hold on to them as they grow musty and dusty.

The sweetest food is often the one with the shortest lifespan. Think cupcakes

So, for 2018, maybe we should stop thinking longterm, and getting disappointed when they go sour, and just enjoy the sweetness of a relationship for however long it lasts.

One beautiful fresh cupcake will always be tastier than the dusty cans in the back of the cupboard.

Carpe diem.

NOTE: IMPEACH Trump? Yeah good luck.

A friend of mine sent me this and it is very logical and it might change our US political system forever. DOJ, FBI, White House policies.

"This is the swamp that Trump is draining. Let’s do our parts as American citizens and get this treason out there for all to see.
Chuck Nelson"

Let’s follow the trail……

Here's what it looks like when all the pieces are sewn together. It smells like conspiracy and treason. Everyone needs to read this. Slowly, and patiently, because it’s very important......


From 2001 to 2005 there was an ongoing investigation into the Clinton Foundation.

A Grand Jury had been empanelled.

Governments from around the world had donated to the “Charity”.

Yet, from 2001 to 2003 none of those “Donations” to the Clinton Foundation were declared.

Hmmm, now you would think that an honest investigator would be able to figure this out.

Guess who took over this investigation in 2002?

Bet you can’t guess.

None other than James Comey.

Now, that’s interesting, isn’t it?

Guess who was transferred in to the Internal Revenue Service to run the Tax Exemption Branch of the IRS?

Your friend and mine, Lois “Be on The Look Out” (BOLO) Lerner.

Now, that’s interesting, isn’t it?

It gets better, well not really, but this is all just a series of strange coincidences, right?

Guess who ran the Tax Division inside the Department of Injustice from 2001 to 2005?

No other than the Assistant Attorney General of the United States, Rod Rosenstein.

Now, that’s interesting, isn’t it?

Guess who was the Director of the Federal Bureau of Investigation during this time frame?

I know, it’s a miracle, just a coincidence, just an anomaly in statistics and chances, but it was Robert Mueller..

What do all four casting characters have in common?

They all were briefed and/or were front line investigators into theClinton Foundation Investigation.

Now that’s just a coincidence, right?

Ok, lets chalk the last one up to mere chance.

Let’s fast forward to 2009......

James Comey leaves the Justice Department to go and cash-in at Lockheed Martin.

Hillary Clinton is running the State Department, on her own personal email server by the way.

The Uranium One “issue” comes to the attention of the Hillary.

Like all good public servants do, you know looking out for America’s best interest, she decides to support the decision and approve the sale of 20% of US Uranium to none other than, the Russians.

Now you would think that this is a fairly straight up deal, except it wasn’t, the People of America got absolutely nothing out of it.

However, prior to the sale approval, none other than Bill Clinton goes to Moscow, gets paid $500K (that’s $500,000.00) for a one hour speech then meets with Vladimir Putin at his home for a few hours.

I’ve read that Open minded, free thinking people are called crazy and ignorant close minded people are normal, judging by some of the bloggers here I would say that they are totally abnormal.

Personally I like people who enjoy my madness and would probably fall in love with someone equally as mad, as long as she appreciates coffee, lets her inner child out but doesn’t have a collection of used plastic bags or likes oven gloves.

How do you classify yourself, mad and open minded or a boring normal person or perhaps a simple person with a very complicated mind?

A breakdown of the Kyle Rittenhouse not guilty verdict
Count 1: First Degree Reckless Homicide - Not Guilty

Count 2: First Degree Recklessly Endangering Safety - Not Guilty

Count 3: First Degree Recklessly Endangering Safety - Not Guilty

Count 4: First Degree Intentional Homicide - Not Guilty

Count 5: Attempted First Degree Intentional Homicide - Not Guilty

What's your belief about them?

One time we drove from Tahoe to Las Vegas and passed by this place.

It was fascinating to know about this most guarded secret of the military. I researched about it. During the early 90s, Google or Wikipedia wasn't around yet so I had to go to the library and found out more about this place.

Well, what was printed then was so limited that sometimes my curiosity wasn't quite sated as it is now.

Anyways is there anyone who believes in this unidentified aerial phenomena? (UAP) Or it's just one BIG CONSPIRACY THEORY.

Please share your experiences or mere opinion(s) about it if you have any.

I'm fascinated considering how tiny SPECK we are in this vast UNIVERSE.

Good day everyone.

Inspiring Christian worship music for those who wish to be inspired. Contributions must actually contain lyrics (or words) worshiping God the father and or Jesus our savior.

Maybe Some Want To Talk About Politics?....Naah...All That Does Is create Division And Animosity Towards One Another...Thats Why We Vote In Private... With The Curtain Drawn...And Thats Why Most Bars... Dont Allow The Subject Of Politics To Be Discussed...Especially With The Consuming Of Alcohol Going On

How About Talking About Religion?...The Same Rules Apply Here...Just Like The Subject Alcohol...Nope...That Wont Work Out Either...As Half The World Is Killing Each Other Over This Very Issue As I Write

And Theres No Need To Discuss Sex
You People Have Burnt That Subject Out A Long... Long Time Ago
(Those That Talk About?)...As Far As Im Concerned(I Could be Wrong)(But I Tend To Doubt It)
They Aint Gettin Any

So...The Best Thing That I... As The "Ramblin Man"...Can Do...Is To
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...........("Dont Forget To Remember... "Simmo").................

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are

The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke Macapinlac)

Many people complain about not being able to find a partner, or finding the wrong one, or not being able to hold on to the right one.

Some blame everything on past partners, rather than focusing on improving themselves to a level that makes them good partner material.

Is the answer within ourselves? Do we attract what we deserve?

I see so many women on here who claim to be a certain age but look so much older. I believe that many people are lying about their age. What do you all think??? Is there anyone who will admit to lying about their age and why???